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Hello,

What to tell you..hmmm… Well, I’m happily married to a wonderful man. He owns me in every way. I was collared in 2007. I’m very content with my choices I’ve made. The way Sir and I choose to live is good for me. I have always thought that I needed a controlling hand and Sir does it well. I have a wildness to me and he keeps that part in check.

We aren’t like most D/s couples. We have our own set of rules. We don’t like to follow the “internet” rules like most people do. There are many that believe in those rules, but not us. We tried them at first, but after a couple months we realized it was stupid to try to follow something that was made up by someone else.

I do wear a collar daily. Well when I can that is. I had a bad neck injury a few years back so it gets sore often. I take off my collar when I go to sleep and put it back on in the morning. I do have to ask to do this every day.

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In May of 2006, Sir started with my anal training. It took quite a while for me to get used to it. So glad he was patient and took his time. I am now a fully trained anal slut. I’m going to be taking the next step and I will be plugging daily.

Why have I chosen to be a submissive?

This is a question that many have asked me. My answer is simple – it’s what I am. I have a need to submit. To give myself freely. When I first realized that I was submissive, my way of  life and the way I thought all changed. It was a relief to finally find me. To find what I had been looking for, for so very long.

3 Responses

  1. so you have to ask him if you can take off the collar, or you do it because you want to? Just curious…

  2. I have to ask when I want it off and I have to ask before it goes back on. I do it because its what he wants :)

  3. I’ve been enjoying your posts. I like the journal. My hubby and I are exploring the dom/sub feelings. I have to laugh sometimes because I think we are both subs and that doesn’t work too well. I’m starting to be more dom lately. I love that asking permission to put the colar on and take it off. That is how it “should” be…

    Thank you for your posts. It is nice to know there are others out there that have/are finding their own rules and embracing their own personalities.

    Kitty

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